Overview:
Having a stoma (ileostomy or colostomy) does not prevent you from becoming pregnant or carrying a healthy baby. With proper planning, support, and care, ostomates can navigate pregnancy and motherhood confidently. This guide provides practical advice, tips, and resources for every stage—from planning to postpartum recovery.
1. Planning & Preparation
Can I Have a Baby With a Stoma? Yes, You Can.
Key Tips:
- Speak with your surgeon or stoma nurse before trying to conceive.
- Ask your gynecologist if a specialist obstetric team familiar with stomas is needed.
- Keep your body nourished, hydrated, and monitored—especially if you have a high-output stoma.
- Be aware of any past surgeries that may affect fertility.
Nurse’s Note:
“As a stoma care nurse, I often see the fear in a woman’s eyes when she asks, ‘Can I still become a mom?’ The answer is always: yes, absolutely.”
2. What to Expect During Pregnancy
Pregnancy With a Stoma: What’s Normal & What’s Not
Key Tips:
- Your stoma may change in size or shape as your belly grows.
- Some ostomates may need to adjust their appliance more often.
- Watch for blockages in late pregnancy as the uterus puts pressure on your bowel.
- Your birth plan may include vaginal or C-section delivery depending on your medical history.
Nurse’s Note:
“Every pregnancy is different. Most women with a stoma go on to have healthy, natural births.”
3. Getting Support
You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Key Tips:
- Partner support: Involve them in stoma care and emotional check-ins.
- Multidisciplinary care: Work with a midwife and stoma nurse team.
- Community support: Join SASS Ostomates expectant mother groups.
- Know your rights: Understand patient rights in public healthcare facilities.
Nurse’s Note:
“Pregnancy can be overwhelming without a stoma, so with one, it’s okay to need more hands and hearts.”
Action Steps:
- ? WhatsApp SASS on +27 66 261 0654
- ? Book a one-on-one session with a maternal care stoma nurse
4. Postpartum & Life With a Stoma
Motherhood With a Stoma: Caring for Baby & You
Key Tips:
- Avoid lifting heavy objects too soon (including baby gear) — ask for help.
- Watch for signs of hernia around your stoma site.
- Stay hydrated, especially if breastfeeding.
- Include stoma care essentials in your baby bag checklist.
- Maintain skin care and pouch hygiene even with limited sleep.
Nurse’s Note:
“Post-birth, your body needs time to recover—especially with a stoma. Caring for yourself allows you to care for your baby.”
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